We’ve been away from home a month today. It’s gone amazingly quickly, but it also feels like an incredibly long time since we left.
We’ve not enjoyed, but coped very well with long flights and big time changes. The children have been largely patient with the endless waiting around involved in such things and remarkably accepting of their lives being turned upside down.
We done so many things, some of which I’ve blogged about, many of which I haven’t. We’ve rarely had a day without seeing or doing something interesting, sometimes planned, sometimes by serendipity. Not everything has gone our way of course. We travelled half way around the world to see lava and the pesky lava got all over enthusiastic, meaning we weren’t allowed to feel its heat. But we’ve also done wonderful things we couldn’t have planned for, like spening the day on the beach with turtles, or watching a rehearsal of geniune Hawaiian hula and having the meaning of the chants explained to us.
The day to day mechanics of travelling have gone suprisingly smoothly so far. We’ve spent a week each in four different places and are now in our fifth. Our days seem to follow a routine of waking early, breakfast and some internet, school work, postcard writing time before about 9am. Most days we’re then out all day, usually returning in time to cook tea. We’re eating all of our meals together and we’re all in bed quite early, the adults doing more computer stuff, watching TV or reading for a couple of hours after the children are asleep.
Sleep was one of my biggest worries about this trip, but it’s really been OK. Of course there are days when we’re tired, the boys in particular, but it’s not any worse than after a busy week at home. Some nights the five of us have all slept together and the children have slept together every night. Eve and Ned have been sharing double beds and Dickon’s had a variety of makeshift beds and campbeds. As I type he’s sleeping on a $3.69 inflatable lilo from the ABC Store down the road. Considering all this, I think they’ve been sleeping pretty well.
Laundry’s been easy so far, with washing machines everywhere we’ve stayed. Our three outfits each have been ample, as long as we wash every couple of days. Internet’s also been good. Everywhere we’ve stayed so far has had wifi of a sort. Some of it very good, some a bit weak and some stolen. Shhh. I’ve found it pretty easy to blog, upload photos, make videos and keep in touch with friends and family.
As a family we are getting on well and enjoying each other’s company, the children usually do a great job of entertaining each other. Of course there’s a bit of grumpiness, arguing and fighting, children and adults, but no more than we’d have at home. Despite getting on well, I think we’ve all missed friends and family at some point or another. We all very much enjoyed the week we spent staying with a family with similar aged children. It was good to have new people to talk to and lovely to make new friends.
Food has not been a highlight so far. Hawaii is outrageously expensive, so we’ve mostly eaten turkey sandwiches, rice and pasta. Plasticy bread from the supermarket is $5 a loaf, I saw a packet of 10 slices of processed cheese for $6.50 and even locally grown pineapples are $5 a pop. Which I’m pretty sure is more expensive than Waitrose. I’m looking forward to Asia on the food front.
The school work seems to be going OK. We’ve not stuck to our plan of doing half an hour every morning, but I think we’ve done quite a lot. Eve has almost finished her literacy workbook, I’m not sure how much has gone in, so we might have another look at some of it, but she’s certainly getting through it. She’s also been reading a lot and we sporadically do times tables. I taught her percentages and their relationship to fractions using only American coins and some beer bottle tops, which I was very proud of. The boys aren’t keen on their workbooks, but seem to have a natural inclination to learn anyway. They’re always counting things and asking what words mean, so I don’t think they’d suffer if we did no proper work with them. They all enjoy playing maths games on their iPods and using the BBC schools website.
Eve and Ned are now swimming extremely well as long as they wear their snorkels and Dickon has overcome his fear of water. We’ve been to the beach almost every day and are very appreciative of the wonderful Hawaiian weather, even if the children are sad about missing the English snow.
Hawaii is truly a magical place, and I’m glad we’ve spent our first month on these volcanic islands in the middle of the Pacific Ocean. We’re off to New Zealand next week, which will be a whole new adventure…